Intimacy & Desire: Co-Commitment vs. Co-Dependency with Clinical Sexologist Michaela d’Artois

In today’s episode, meet Michaela d’Artois. A writer, Certified Sex Coach & Sexologist specializing in intimacy, connection, and desire. After completing her BFA, Michaela spent over a decade as a journalist writing about the female experience for leading women's magazines while advocating for equality and sexual health resources for all. 

Through her work as a Certified Sex Coach and trained Sexologist, specializing in a non-pathologizing approach to intimacy and sexuality, Michaela provides educational, actionable resources and practices to strengthen one’s capacity for emotional and erotic intelligence.

Michaela’s work is rooted in pragmatic human development and informed by adult learning techniques. She aims to re-work ways of thinking that may hinder us, replacing them with a clear line of communication into our deepest desires.


In this episode, we discuss:

  • The definition of co-commitment vs. co-dependency 

  • Tools for creating commitment and connection

  • Co-Commitment and creating space for an individual to thrive

  • Helpful relationships vs. healthy relationships

  • Creating intimacy when time with your partner is limited

  • Building trust in a relationship

  • Reconnecting after a period of disconnectedness

  • Resolving conflicts in a relationship

  • Knowing when it's time to end a relationship

  • Soulmates and soul contracts

Resources:

Learn more about Michaela's work at Inner Eros

Follow her on IG at @michaeladartois

Conscious Loving, The Journey to Co-Commitment by Gay Hendricks

Why Does He Do That by Lundy Bancroft

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